How to STOP Being a Person that NOTHING Seems to Work For
Written by Jerry on August 22, 2009 – 12:17 am -Guest article 
How to STOP Being a Person that NOTHING Seems to Work For -
by Bob Doyle
Do you ever wonder why great things happen to some people
but not to you?
Do you ever read about people who have tried this or that
product and had some incredible result, but when you try it,
you don’t get the same result?
Have you become a person who NOTHING seems to work for?
Maybe you’ve thought about trying the some new self-
improvement package that sounds great, , but you’re just so
tired of things not working for you.
Let’s take a look at how you’ve gotten where you are and why
these things might happen.
First, at some point, you tried something – either based on
a recommendation, a testimonial you read, or some other
reason. Basically, you tried it based on someone else’s
positive experience. However, when you tried it, you did not
get the same result so you made the assumption that it
didn’t work for you. But how true IS this? Often – VERY
often – things work differently for different people, and
it’s a mistake to judge your life by comparing it with
others. Perhaps you just needed more time. Maybe your
circumstances are completely different! Regardless, however,
you made up – you CREATED a Truth for yourself at that time,
that truth being "This didn’t work", although remember, that
truth is based only on your surface comparison with someone
else…and it really doesn’t have anything to do with you,
and what – in the cosmic scheme of things – is best for you.
Those results you read about for that other person are what
was right at that time for them, and that doesn’t
necessarily mean that NOW is the time for you and that it
will happen to you the same way that it happened for them!
From then on, every thing else you try is then compared to
that first experience, with the Truth in your mind being
"Well, it didn’t work that time…let’s see if THIS works".
So again you’re comparing…and not really trying anything
"purely" and on it’s own merit without preconceived notions
or judgements. You are already working against yourself! You
may not yet automatically expect failure, but you have it as
an option, and perhaps even a probability based on your
previous experiences.
The more things you try with this mindset, the more you
fortify this mindset – it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy
that "Nothing works for me". Before you know it, that is who
you Become. The person you are about reaching your specific
goals or trying this or that product or technology is "It
works for others but never for me." Once you reach that
place, it will most certainly become true for you.
So what do you do? How do you break out of this pattern?
First, acknowledge how you got here…by comparing yourself
or your results with other people who are really on a
completely different path then you, although they may have
been after similar results. Then create a new idea for
yourself – give yourself permission to experience success on
your own terms, without judging what happens based on other
people or expectations set up by anyone other than yourself.
Once you believe that you deserve to succeed and that you
CAN succeed and that you WILL succeed, your life will
change. Whatever you try will work for you, because YOU
define what "working" is – not somebody else! You set your
own timetable, you are relaxed, and non-judgement. Your
infinite patience and lack of expectation based Externally,
will work with you in very powerful ways and you will regain
control over your destiny.
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Bob Doyle is the CEO and founder of Boundless Living and the
developer of the "Wealth Beyond Reason" program, which
provides a continuing education of the physics of wealth,
abundance, and joyous living through the Law of Attraction.
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The Samurai Way to the Law of Attraction
Written by Jerry on August 13, 2009 – 5:01 pm -
When you think of a Samurai, what do you picture? Probably a disciplined warrior and formidable killing machine.
Many of the classic works from the Samurai era tell a different story. They tell a story of truly humble renaissance men, well versed in martial arts, fitness, calligraphy, poetry and much more. These were also men of tradition and honor.
A few days ago I was reading some of the old Bushido books in my library and came across a really great summary of the 20 Rules for Lifelong Training of the Samurai.
Did you know that they were not only masters of the Sword but, of the Law of Attraction? Take a close look at the twenty rules for lifelong training and you will find many parallels to using the Law of Attraction.
What you read will surprise you because, remember, this was written for and by true warriors in a time of turmoil.
1. Never Lie
2. Never Forget To Be Grateful To Your Employer
3. Never Forget to Be Grateful To Your Parents
4. Never Forget To Be Grateful To Your Teachers
5. Never Forget To Be Grateful To Your Fellow Human Beings
6. Do Nothing To Offend Your God or Your Elders
7. Do Not Resent Little Children
8. Do Not Burden Others With Your Problems
9. There Is No Place For Anger In The Way
10. Do Not Rejoice In The Misfortune Of Others
11. Do Your best To What Is Best
12. Do Not Turn Your Back On Others And Think Only Of Yourself
13. When You Eat, Be Mindful Of The Hard Work Of The Farmers Who Grew The Food. Never Be Wasteful Of Plants, Trees, Earth or Stones.
14. Do Not Dress Up In Fine Clothes, Or Waste Time On Superficial Appearance
15. Always Behave Properly With Good Manners
16. Always Treat Everyone As An Honored Guest
17. To Overcome Ignorance, Learn From As Many People As Possible
18. Do Not Study And Practice The Arts Just To Make A Name For Yourself
19. Human Beings Have Good And Bad Points. Do Not Laugh At Or Dismiss Anyone
20. Strive To Behave Well But Keep Good Actions Hidden And Do Not Seek The Praise Of Others.
We can all learn to attract whatever we desire into our lives by following the way of the Samurai through being truthful, being grateful, being conscious of our choices and seeking wisdom from many sources.
Follow these 20 rules and become a samurai of the Law of Attraction!
Never Stop Exploring Life!
Jerry L Saunders, RM
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Be Okay With Money Flowing OUT
Written by Jerry on July 26, 2009 – 5:37 pm -Not only should you focus on attracting more money to flow IN, it’s also just as important to alter your thoughts and feelings about the money you spend. Think for a moment about how you view spending right now. Do you avoid spending money because you’re afraid you won’t have enough to cover your bills each month? Do you spend TOO MUCH to pacify an emotional need? Do you feel resentful about the money you send to your landlord or mortgage company, creditors and service suppliers?
The way you view spending can have a dramatic impact on your overall level of abundance. If you have unhealthy spending habits (whether excessive spending or excessive scrimping), you are effectively blocking more money from coming into your life.
Think about that for a moment. If you resent sending money to people and companies that have loaned you money or provided services to you, you are attracting more opportunities to resent sending money out! If you spend recklessly in order to fill an emotional need, you are attracting more emotional emptiness that you’ll have to try to fill! If you are afraid to spend money because you are afraid you won’t have enough money to cover your basic expenses, you will simply attract more situations where you don’t have enough!
It sounds overly simple, but it really does work that way where the Law of Attraction is concerned.
So what IS a healthy spending attitude? Read more »
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Monk Moments 12 – Affirmations of Action
Written by Jerry on April 3, 2009 – 11:21 pm -In this podcast we’ll talk about the fourth and final type of affirmation – Affirmations of Action!
This is one of the shortest podcasts in this series but, you will see just how powerful this information is when you begin to understand and use it.
Get ready and take notes.
Never Stop Exploring Life!
Jerry L Saunders, Renegade Monk
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Learn 4 Tips on How to Avoid Thinking Like the Masses
Written by Jerry on March 18, 2009 – 11:22 pm -Learn 4 Tips on How to Avoid Thinking Like the Masses
By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Mark_Morrison]Mark Morrison
Are you one of the ones who’s been listening to all the doom and gloom the media has been reporting on? Are you finding yourself getting sucked in to all the negativity about the economy and the severe recession we are in along with the masses?
Are you fearful of losing your job or business? If you allow these thoughts to consume you with the fear of this happening then you need to begin taking control of YOUR thoughts, attitudes and feelings. They’re yours and no one else’s. Only you have the ability to control them because if you don’t you will become unable to think and act with reason. Fear will cause your body and mind to shut down and eventually you are contributing to the growing recessionary problem. Read more »
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