How to make “Self-Improvement” Work Every Time!
Written by Jerry on October 9, 2009 – 4:26 am -
How to make "Self-Improvement" Work Every Time!
By Bob Doyle
There is an inherent problem with the approach most people take to self-improvement of any kind. There is a presupposition that there is something wrong that needs fixing. Perhaps it is true that there are areas in their lives that they wish to change. However, the mindset with which they approach transformation will very often NEGATE any positive results they might have. Why? Because all of their focus is on the PROBLEM they are trying to solve, rather than their vision for what their life will be like on without the alleged problem.
There is a very basic physical natural law which ultimately determines ANY success on ANY level. This law dictates exactly what our experience will be from moment to moment. Best of all, this law is fully under our control at all times, even if we are not aware of it.
This "law" is the Law of Attraction. Most of the time, you hear about this law in terms of how it will help you to attract wealth or abundance in general. However, the Law of Attraction transcends just those basic desires. The Law of Attraction dictates that you will receive back exactly what you "vibrate"…that is, what you are FEELING. Where is your attention? Is it on the feelings associated with the problem, or with the feelings of no longer having the problem?
If you approach self-improvement material with the desire to "get rid of the problem", and if all your feelings are on how terrible or frustrating this "problem" is, Universal Law dictates that you will simply attract MORE of those feelings…more of the circumstances that brought the problem to you in the first place. The Universe isn’t "out
to get you". It is simply responding to the "request" that you are putting out by way of your feelings.
If, however, you approach your self-improvement solutions with high positive feelings associated with what your life WILL be…if you visualize your success with your program of choice on all sensory levels, particularly on the level of EMOTION, you will literally magnetically ATTRACT the success you are looking for! Miracles will occur!
While this may sound very "mystic" or even preposterous, I submit to you that EVERY aspect of your life right now has been brought to you in perfect response to your prevailing thoughts and beliefs which directly effect your emotional state, which in turn causes you to emit very specific and magnetic frequencies which attract like frequencies.
We must never forget that beyond simply being flesh and bone, we are, at a molecular level, ENERGY. And our personal energy obeys the same physical laws as all other Energy which we study more traditionally.
The wealthiest, most successful people in the world use the Law of Attraction (albeit often unconsciously) to effortlessly bring into their lives whatever they envision. This could be wealth, successful businesses, or satisfying relationships. Or, it could simply be wisdom, peace of mind, and a sense of purpose.
The big secret is that you truly CAN have whatever you want, regardless of how "pie-in-the-sky" this may sound. You need only learn a few key concepts about HOW to ask for what you want to begin receiving it in abundance! Despite what you may currently believe or have been taught, it is not the purpose of our lives to struggle, to work hard for years, or try to "figure things out". Our job is to do what we love to do. When we do that with full trust and knowing that doing so will naturally attract our deepest desires, we become powerful magnets, which absolutely assures our success.
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Bob Doyle is the CEO and founder of Boundless Living and the developer of the "Wealth Beyond Reason" program, which provides a continuing education of the physics of wealth, abundance, and joyous living through the Law of Attraction. For more info CLICK HERE
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WAKE UP and Create Something – by Bob Doyle
Written by Jerry on August 28, 2009 – 11:50 pm -Guest Article
WAKE UP and Create Something – by Bob Doyle
It’s time for the "mainstream" to WAKE UP. The alarm clock
is ringing, they keep hitting snooze, and in the meantime,
the life they could be living is passing them by.
Day after day, millions of people go through their lives
wishing and hoping and dreaming that things could be better,
with absolutely no knowledge that it is they themselves that
perpetuate their own dissatisfaction.
It is not the "gifted few" who create their realities. It’s
not just for those in the metaphysical community. It is all
of us. Every single one. However, there are a few who have
awakened to this knowledge, and make creating their reality
a daily event…manifesting whatever it is they want in
their life with seemingly no effort!
Meanwhile the rest of the world looks on in wonder and
disbelief. They assume that these "fortunate few" are among
the cosmically lucky.
To be honest, the whole thing generates some anger in me.
The problem is that we are "dumbed down" by society
throughout our whole lives under the pretense that we are
actually being intellectualized. The "scholarly" tell us
that metaphysical topics like reality creation are pure
fantasy. Science insists on measurable evidence of
everything before it will acknowledge such claims as fact.
However, it’s really not that difficult to comprehend. Even
the most skeptical people should be able to grasp a few
simple concepts like: Read more »
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How to Expect the Best
Written by Jerry on August 18, 2009 – 11:38 pm -Do you ever find yourself getting stuck in negative thought patterns and expecting the worst possible outcome in just about every situation?
It’s a common mind-set that can be difficult to change when you finally decide you’ve had enough. Unfortunately, negative thoughts tend to breed like rabbits and multiply on their own – even when you’re not consciously trying to think negatively the thoughts keep spinning.
The good news is that turning a negative outlook into a positive one just takes a bit of patience and practice until the positive thoughts begin to take over. You will never be 100% positive but, it’s possible to be positive much more often than you are negative.
Here are three simple steps to begin developing your positive expectations on a daily basis:
1. Develop self-awareness to recognize negative expectations.
One problem with negative thoughts is that they often form below your conscious level of awareness, and you get so used to them being in your head that you don’t even notice them anymore. To turn the tide of negativity, you’ll have to develop a strong level of self-awareness. A good way to start is by performing self-checks several times a day at random times. Pay attention first to how you feel. If you’re feeling positive and productive, most likely you’ve been thinking positive thoughts.
However, if you notice that you’re feeling grouchy, pessimistic or stressed, you’re probably focusing more on negative thoughts.
When that happens:
2. Challenge and change the negative thoughts.
Believe it or not, it’s fairly easy to challenge and change your negative thoughts with a little willpower and concentration. For example, if you find yourself feeling that you might not finish your work on time, you might try a little bit of self-talk like this: “Okay, so I’m feeling kind of worried right now, but really everything is okay. I’m strong, I’m smart and I’m capable of finishing my work on time. I’ll do my best and everything will work out fine.” Even though nothing has changed in your outer circumstances, this kind of self-talk can get you feeling and acting more positive.
3. Develop a general positive outlook.
At the same time, while you’re changing negative your thoughts to positive, work daily on developing a the general positive expectation habit. Each day when you wake up, affirm confidently, “Today is going to be a great day!
Everything will go my way and I’ll remain positive no matter what comes my way.”
When you encounter challenges, see them as opportunities to learn and grow. Perception is 99% of your reality! If you simply work on shifting the way you look at the experiences of your life, you can easily, over time, shift your negative thought habits.
The more you focus on changing your mindset to the positive, the more you’ll empower yourself to create better and more postive circumstances in your life.
Before you know it, you’ll be enjoying better opportunities more often and attracting other likeminded, positive people to connect with.
Never Stop Exploring Life!
Jerry L Saunders, RM
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Finding Peace in Chaos
Written by Jerry on August 15, 2009 – 11:30 pm -Life can be truly hectic, even chaotic, if we don’t stop now and then to take a few minutes for ourselves. With the invention of computers, our work lives were supposed to get easier, but it’s gotten busier than ever before!
The original mentality was that computers would allow us to get the same amount of work done in half the time. That idea went out the window when we realized we could now get twice the work (or more) done in the same time.
Now our world has become so fast paced that it’s hard to keep up. If you don’t stop the pandemonium, you will begin to feel as if your life is descending into a chaotic jumble. Luckily, there are ways to deal with these overwhelming feelings and put some order back into your life.
Here are a few tips on how to find peace in your chaos around:
1. Take a break. Give yourself a chance to take in everything going on around you. Even if your break is a nice hot bath instead of a shower, it can help.
Find a little time here and there to get some peace and quiet while you reflect on the events of the day or on just nothing.
2. Meditate. Meditation can be very helpful in bringing you peace. Meditation doesn’t mean sitting cross legged and chanting like a monk. Instead, it’s a very comfortable and soothing way to calm your mind and bring you the serenity you desire.
With a little practice, anyone can meditate.
Picture yourself on a bridge. Imagine looking down at the water and seeing leaves floating by in the stream. The leaves represent your problems and the chaos around you. Now, without stopping to focus on the leaves, watch them just drift away in the water and disappear forever.
3. Find something positive. No matter how chaotic things get, you can always find something good and positive in your situation.
Actively look for the silver lining. It could be something as simple as a favorite song, a picture, or the smile of another person that gives you some inner peace. Look for these things and you will find them.
As a last resort, if you can’t find something good, ask yourself "If I COULD find something good, what would it be?"
4. Slow down. While we have to multitask almost constantly these days, doing so tends to wear us down even faster. Multi-tasking adds to the chaos around us.
When you can, take one thing at a time and allow yourself to focus on that task alone. While you may be able to handle three or more things at once, the quality won’t be nearly as good as if you focused on them one at a time.
5. Don’t let anyone drag you down. Be wary when considering the opinions of others.
Don’t ignore everyone, but don’t let yourself get bogged down with other people’s baggage and their issues, either.
It’s best to remove your personal chaos causers, even if one of the causes is other people.
6. Throw out the drama. Eliminate the drama in your life, especially other people’s drama. It’s not your concern, so stay out of it and don’t get caught up.
Focus on solving your challenges positively rather than enjoying pity parties. This will reduce the drama and turn your focus to something positive.
Everyone has some chaos their life. It isn’t always a bad thing. Stress can be productive as well. In fact, without stress and responsibilities, some people would never get out of bed!
Life will always have stress and problems, but how you react to them and how much you allow in your life can dictate the level of stress in your life.
The first step is realizing that you NEED to make some time for yourself. If you don’t, nothing else you do will really make that much of a difference. You can’t be there for everyone else if you aren’t taking care of yourself first.
Use these tips every day to bring order to your life, and soon you’ll find peace in your chaos.
Never Stop Exploring Life!
Jerry L Saunders, RM
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You’ve Been Lied To About Law of Attraction
Written by Jerry on August 14, 2009 – 12:32 am -The Big LOA Lie
You’ve been told it’s as easy as Ask, Believe and Receive.
Just look at the sky and ask for a million dollars and in just a few minutes you’ll get it. Does that sound like a load of crap? It is!
You see the Law of Attraction does really work. It is simple but, it’s not easy!
You’ve been told to Ask. Just what does that mean? Is it as simple as looking towards the sky and saying “Will you please give me a new BMW?” Not really.
Asking means that you create a very clear picture of what you want and then start creating energy around you to start the manifesting process. It also means that while you are waiting for the universe to deliver, you are grateful that your desire is on the way.
Then, you’re told to Believe. But what if you don’t? What if deep in your heart you don’t feel like you deserve to have what you really want in life?
And what could be easier than to Receive? They told you that if you just asked and believed that the money fairy would just drop the rent check in your hand, right? And if not it was because you screwed it up, right?
Well, you’ve been lied to! No they didn’t mean to lie, they are just regurgitating what they’ve heard everyone else saying. The fact still remains that it’s not working and you’ve been made to feel like a failure.
There is some truth to the Ask, Believe and Receive idea. In reality that is the complete recipe to attract all your desires but here’s what they left out…
Before you are ready to manifest your true desires, you must first master basic skills that will prepare you to properly Ask, Believe and Receive.
Just like you had to learn to walk before you could run and learn individual letters before you could read, you must build a solid foundation of basic skills before you can apply the Law of Attraction in your life.
You will hear some people who claim manifesting is a 3 part process. Some say it’s 5. And I’ve heard some that have 7 steps. It doesn’t really matter how many steps are in the system. What matters is that everything is covered in those steps.
I choose to follow the 3 step Ask, Believe and Receive model. However, you will hear me say more than once that most books forgot the taking action step. So what gives?
Well, I believe that taking inspired action falls under the step of Believing. If you are taking inspired action in the direction of your desire you are proving to your subconscious and the Universe that you really do believe.
Let’s use another example. You must be crystal clear about what you desire and only when you are clear will you be ready to ask. So having a clear vision falls under the Ask section.
You don’t need to understand the whole concept of the Law of Attraction right now. Just know that each component in the Ask, Believe and Receive model has several sub-components that they forgot to tell you about.
I’ll be telling you about them later.
Never Stop Exploring Life!
Jerry L Saunders, RM
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